How I Helped My Player Who’s Stuck [Best Time is Now]

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If I were starting my recruiting journey over again from scratch, here’s exactly what I’d focus on…and what most players miss:

  • Why this is the first real “off-the-field” moment that matters
    Most athletes are used to grinding in the gym or on the field…but this is the first time you’re doing something that doesn’t involve sweat: building your recruiting presence. Reaching out to coaches is your responsibility, and no one else will do it for you.

  • How personalized research gives you an edge (most skip this)
    Personalizing emails to coaches not just schools is a game changer. Mention where the coach played, a connection to your hometown, or something specific about their career. This tiny detail can separate you from thousands of other players.

  • The story that changed how I approach relationships in baseball
    When I was with the Cardinals, Mike Shildt introduced himself and referenced details about my college career that blew me away. That type of intentionality? It sticks and that’s the feeling you want a coach to have about you.

  • Why your highlight video isn’t about impressing it’s about not getting crossed off
    Coaches aren’t offering scholarships off one video. They’re checking if you can swing, if your mechanics are clean, and if you’re explosive. A bad video doesn’t just fail to impress it disqualifies you. Mix in cage work, clear angles, and avoid grainy game film.

  • Time management is your biggest weapon in high school
    If you’re “too busy” to write emails now, imagine what college will be like. Build the habit of finding 15–30 minutes a day even at school to chip away at tasks. Your future self will thank you.

  • The tech is there to help you just need the inputs
    Once those personalized sentences are written, sending your outreach is literally a few clicks. It’s automated but only works if you put in the effort upfront.

There’s no better time than right now. Start the outreach. Build the habit. And remember, most players don’t do this which is exactly why it works.

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